In the Catholic faith, physical affection is an essential part of married life. But what types of physical contact are allowed? In this post, we will discuss when and how couples can express their love for each other in the marriage bed
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What is the right thing to do?
Ogólnie rzecz biorąc, każdy rodzaj dotyku, który przynosi przyjemność obu stronom, jest dopuszczalny w małżeństwie. Zgodnie z nauczaniem katolickim, aktywność seksualna powinna być ograniczona do więzi małżeńskich, dlatego każdy rodzaj kontaktu fizycznego, który ma być grą wstępną, powinien prowadzić do stosunku seksualnego. Katechizm stwierdza również, że taki kontakt powinien być zawsze „pełen szacunku i satysfakcjonujący dla obu stron” (KKK 2360)
However, there are some restrictions on the type of fondling you can engage in with your spouse. For example, sex oral or manual stimulation aimed at achieving orgasm without intercourse are not considered appropriate forms of sexual behavior (CCC 2352). In addition, any form of physical touch that involves pain or humiliation - such as spanking - is not permitted
How can we express our love physically?
The best way to show love to your spouse through physical contact is through tenderness and intimacy. Meaningful touch, such as kisses, embracing, holding hands, hugging and massaging, can help express love and create a stronger emotional bond between you and your partner. It is important to remember that these forms of touch do not always have to lead to sex; they can stand on their own as expressions of love and attachment
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Physical affection plays an important role in a healthy marital relationship according to Catholic beliefs. However, it is important to understand what types of physical contact are appropriate in marriage, according to Church teaching. Couples should focus on expressing their love through tenderness and intimacy, rather than through painful or humiliating actions. In this way, they will build a strong emotional bond with each other that will last throughout their lives together as husband and wife.